tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34403038.post6654424158168230829..comments2023-09-27T18:49:11.353+05:30Comments on Obsessivemom.in: J is for being JudgmentalUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger24125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34403038.post-62087257109983130232014-03-22T21:49:24.323+05:302014-03-22T21:49:24.323+05:30Nodding to every line.. absolutely my philosophy i...Nodding to every line.. absolutely my philosophy in life too.. obviously its always a work in progress :). Amen to less judging all around!Aparnahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06829120477564667304noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34403038.post-27288421481267159862014-03-20T23:59:43.869+05:302014-03-20T23:59:43.869+05:30This is one thing I wrote about and think I mentio...This is one thing I wrote about and think I mentioned to you as well, some time ago. The art of judging comes so quickly and easily to us. We need to step back and think about everyone's situation before we judge them. Very well written post, Tulika!Shailaja Vhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12639542621638996802noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34403038.post-42236353436632444522014-03-20T17:04:53.463+05:302014-03-20T17:04:53.463+05:30Thanks JM. Thanks JM. Obsessivemomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06659233519392456624noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34403038.post-85921457157108788962014-03-20T15:36:53.610+05:302014-03-20T15:36:53.610+05:30True OM! I believe even the realization that we ar...True OM! I believe even the realization that we are being judgemental is a great step forward!! And then, it takes effort and mindfulness to actually not judge others.Priyahttp://softypinkngloriousred.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34403038.post-30081704905074208522014-03-20T13:14:46.502+05:302014-03-20T13:14:46.502+05:30Slotting people is something we all have to guard ...Slotting people is something we all have to guard against, don't we? Corinne Rodrigueshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11142098428026084994noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34403038.post-18027281539417495362014-03-20T11:32:04.972+05:302014-03-20T11:32:04.972+05:30...to be able to curb being judgmental (even inwar......to be able to curb being judgmental (even inwardly) is a great virtue indeed! Great post!AmitAaghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02691653942870794293noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34403038.post-90776880343444663902014-03-20T02:43:48.249+05:302014-03-20T02:43:48.249+05:30You are so right. Being judgmental can be so limit...You are so right. Being judgmental can be so limiting. I'll admit that I have trouble not being somewhat judgmental towards a parent berating a maid in front of the children. If she isn't satisfied with the care being given her child that should be discussed privately with the employee. Yep, in some ways I have trouble not being jdugemental.Carverhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05968919406427737503noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34403038.post-18036555707108894262014-03-19T23:40:11.623+05:302014-03-19T23:40:11.623+05:30StereotypingStereotypingmagiceyehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17848851692951192508noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34403038.post-50755855909612332992014-03-19T20:05:43.039+05:302014-03-19T20:05:43.039+05:30So true we are so eager to pass judgement especial...So true we are so eager to pass judgement especially in our country....Nabanitahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05958307546734785806noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34403038.post-90915562708097850872014-03-19T14:36:54.603+05:302014-03-19T14:36:54.603+05:30Beautifully said. Who are we to judge others? ther...Beautifully said. Who are we to judge others? there is no one fit all mould. Having said that, it's really difficult not to switch on the self-righteous mode every now and then ;-)Umahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04717377240212152065noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34403038.post-91547255203312005722014-03-19T12:34:29.287+05:302014-03-19T12:34:29.287+05:30So true. As human beings, we are quick to jump the...So true. As human beings, we are quick to jump the gun on others by labeling as X, Y or Z. What we need is a little of understanding and i've been guilty of that too. That's why I think twice before judging and strive to let people be who they are:) Great postAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34403038.post-72584579208715165142014-03-19T09:11:04.502+05:302014-03-19T09:11:04.502+05:30Wise words......Wise words......Hildredhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05420791064923078834noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34403038.post-21371211867264985362014-03-19T07:36:55.331+05:302014-03-19T07:36:55.331+05:30Such a good example of judging others. I try so h...Such a good example of judging others. I try so hard not to join in.<br />AnnAnnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13841651518661408615noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34403038.post-84721228747171748132014-03-19T06:10:51.026+05:302014-03-19T06:10:51.026+05:30What a wonderful post to remind us all that no one...What a wonderful post to remind us all that no one is perfect - whatever "perfect" is. <br /><br />Leslie<br />abcw teamLeslie:https://www.blogger.com/profile/11964698251137788839noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34403038.post-39483917378115028142014-03-19T06:10:46.501+05:302014-03-19T06:10:46.501+05:30Something inborn and inherent. It does require lot...Something inborn and inherent. It does require lot of self control before passing a judgement.<br />Great post!Indranihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13097788106899971708noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34403038.post-85196794112222955452014-03-19T05:59:08.623+05:302014-03-19T05:59:08.623+05:30We constantly tend to judge everything and everyon...We constantly tend to judge everything and everyone mostly on subjective basis.<br />Bonding as you have pointed out is not based on language,region,religion,caste or even social status.<br />It is a nicely written postKParthasarathihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02189924874350906456noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34403038.post-59825543096082156692014-03-19T04:26:52.677+05:302014-03-19T04:26:52.677+05:30Easy to judge, isn't it?Easy to judge, isn't it?Roger Owen Greenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05298172138307632062noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34403038.post-27341082677609818322014-03-19T00:18:12.515+05:302014-03-19T00:18:12.515+05:30This reminds me of reading this somewhere, "G...This reminds me of reading this somewhere, "God, I hate judgmental people... they are so mean and fat!!" :PShilpa Garghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11016927627801620377noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34403038.post-5274311095926409142014-03-19T00:01:44.704+05:302014-03-19T00:01:44.704+05:30As one who has eaten a lot of my words over the ye...As one who has eaten a lot of my words over the years, I try not to be judgmental now as I've gotten older I believe it's a defense mechanism to mask insecurity; tearing others down in order to make ourselves feel better. A great reminder for everyone to check their tongue before they speak!lisahttp://www.peripheralperceptions.org/2014/03/18/j-is-for-joseph/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34403038.post-66111524432137197202014-03-19T00:01:07.427+05:302014-03-19T00:01:07.427+05:30It is sad how judgmental people really are. It is...It is sad how judgmental people really are. It is so hard not to fall into that trap and pass judgment on what kind of person they are by how they look.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11564863484894692249noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34403038.post-77912069506131825662014-03-18T23:38:25.719+05:302014-03-18T23:38:25.719+05:30judging others say a whole lot more to the one doi...judging others say a whole lot more to the one doing the judging I think.<br /><br />frankly my dearPhoto Cachehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17734663922538063553noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34403038.post-25391525956931082082014-03-18T22:58:41.968+05:302014-03-18T22:58:41.968+05:30It is so easy to fall into the trap of judging oth...It is so easy to fall into the trap of judging others quickly based on one's prejudices and stereotypes. A good post on an important topic.Beloo Mehrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10514874213623046284noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34403038.post-90571538130256818122014-03-18T22:45:20.361+05:302014-03-18T22:45:20.361+05:30Judging others can really show how prideful we are...Judging others can really show how prideful we are of ourselves. That's not a pretty sight.<br />Excellent post today and a word for each of us, no matter what country we lie in.photowannabehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11760961275666768173noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34403038.post-7167409041419782272014-03-18T21:03:04.292+05:302014-03-18T21:03:04.292+05:30I completely agree. I think one of the easiest tra...I completely agree. I think one of the easiest trap as a parent is being judgemental. It is so easy and it happens naturally. But as you said we all fall short sometime or other. No one is perfect. Wish more parents realise this. Very well written :)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11496129504787572149noreply@blogger.com